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Welcome to 2021! Here in the US, it’s certainly starting out with a bang (not necessarily in a good way). It’s been said that it’s hard to change what you don’t know needs changing, so I look at the start of 2021 as offering a pretty clear message that some change might be a good thing. But how does one go about ushering in change? Honestly, I think we begin with ourselves. When we do, that change will not only reflect out to the collective, it can also guide us in ways that allow us to support the collective if further changes are needed. ...

Thank you so much for your enthusiastic support of this blog. I deeply appreciate your letters and comments, as well as the opportunity to explore with you the wisdom embodied in the Five Elements model. This deceptively simple model provides a window into the workings of the universe and helps us better understand ourselves, the people in our lives, and our relationships. As we say a ready goodbye to 2020, I once again offer you The Five Elements Blessing....

Dear Readers: Thank you so much for your enthusiastic support of this blog! I deeply appreciate your letters and comments (and shares), as well as the opportunity to explore with you the wisdom embodied in the Five Elements model. This deceptively simple model not only provides a window into the workings of the universe, it also helps us better understand ourselves and our relationships. As we say goodbye to 2018, I once again offer you The Five Elements Blessing. As I have mentioned in this blog many times, while our personalities may reflect a specific element, we do have all five of the elements in our makeup. That means that the gifts of each element are ours to access as we need. May we honor these gifts equally in ourselves and others during 2019.   The Five Elements Blessing I wish you the hope and optimism of Water: May you always embody trust.  I wish you the success and productivity of Wood:
 May your accomplishments foster peace. I wish you the joy and celebration of Fire:
 May you be a source of inspiration to others.  I wish you the caring and connection of Earth: May you offer compassion to those in need.  I wish you the knowledge and understanding of Metal: May you provide wisdom to us all.   Happy New Year! Let’s make 2019 a year of joyful relationships, sweet love, and everlasting kindness! Vicki ...

Dear Vicki: I love New Years resolutions! Committing to what I want to accomplish next year makes me happy. Unfortunately, my husband hates the idea! Every year it’s impossible to get him excited about sharing thoughts for the coming year. And when he does finally agree, it’s like the Grinch is here to stay. I’m dreading January this year because I know it will just be one more fight about resolutions. Of course, I could make them alone, but we’ve been together a long time and so much of what happens in my life involves him. How do I get him excited about New Year’s resolutions? Signed: Resolutions for Me Dear Resolutions: You don’t mention what elements you and your husband are, but based on your letter, I can make an educated guess. Because you enjoy coming up with resolutions for the New Year, I suspect that you are most likely a Wood. The arena of focus for Wood is the future, and there is nothing more future-oriented than resolutions. Honestly, they’re really nothing more than glorified plans for change, and Woods are excellent planners. The fact that your husband hates resolutions (rather than just finding them boring, pointless, or silly) suggests that he has a lot of Metal. The arena of focus for Metals is the past; they excel at synthesizing the events that occur over the course of a cycle, be that a month, a season, a lifetime, or longer. Metals are brilliant at looking backward and bringing wisdom forward. But it’s often difficult for them to project themselves into the future; they just don’t think that way. Our culture definitely focuses on New Years resolutions. But the fact that so many people embrace the practice of making resolutions doesn’t suggest that we’re a world of Woods. Rather, I think it suggests that each element can and does have a connection to the idea of a fresh start. We just need to understand that connection. Let’s take a closer look at how each element might respond to the idea of New Years resolutions, and then we’ll consider how you might encourage your husband to embrace them. As we said, New Years resolutions are a fancy way of formalizing desired changes for the coming year. Woods are the planners of the Five Elements, so they will love the idea of making resolutions and will probably stick with them for some time. They have that motive power of manifestation that carries them a long way toward a goal, and they also have a great deal of structure. How successful Woods are at keeping their resolutions often depends on how reasonable the goal was in the first place. The reasonableness of the resolution takes us to Water. Waters are big picture thinkers. They love pondering big questions and dreaming about new ways of looking at and doing things. Imagination sits in Water. Practicality isn’t a big concern for Waters, which means that they aren’t likely to create overly reasonable resolutions. Productivity and action aren’t big deals...

Dear Readers: Thank you so much for your enthusiastic support of this blog. I deeply appreciate both your letters and comments, and also the opportunity to share with you the wisdom embodied in the Five Elements model. This deceptively simple model not only provides us with a window into the workings of the universe, it also helps us better understand ourselves, and our relationships with the people in our lives. As we say goodbye to 2017, I offer you The Five Elements Blessing. May we honor the gifts of each element equally in ourselves, and others, during 2018.   The Five Elements Blessing  I wish you the hope and optimism of Water: May you bring truth to the people in your life. I wish you the success and productivity of Wood: 
 May your accomplishments foster peace.  I wish you the joy and celebration of Fire:
 May you be surrounded by inspiration.  I wish you the caring and connection of Earth:
 May you offer compassion to those in need.  I wish you the knowledge and understanding of Metal: 
 May you provide the wisdom of the past to the future.   Happy New Year! Let’s make it a year of fulfilling relationships, love, and kindness for all! Vicki ...